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Yes. This type of comparison is harmful. We need to always make efforts to improve. But when you look up to others, except saints, you usually get distracted by their personality, money, name and fame, beauty or other perishable considerations. You need to avoid these considerations and just focus on their virtues. Most people who wish to idealize have little discrimination and get attracted and influenced by shallow considerations.

Competition, even in virtues, can be dangerous. Not knowing one's capacity can cause frustration. Dogs do not and should not compete with horses or lions, but should compete within their own species. Man is a complex species and therefore a more different rule applies. Gita says: Perform your own duties in an expert manner and you will be the best. God wants you to strive to perform your duties to the best of your abilities without shallow considerations based on lust, greed, name and fame, etc.

-- Swami Radhanandaji

Last Updated ( Thursday, 30 August 2007 )
 
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“The mind has to be gradually and systematically brought under control. The will has to be strengthened by slow, continuous, and persevering drill. This is no child's play, no fad to be tried one day and discarded the next. It is a life's work; and the end to be attained is well worth all that it can cost us to reach it; being nothing less than the realization of our absolute oneness with the Divine. Surely, with this end in view, and with the knowledge that we can certainly succeed, no price can be too great to pay.” – Swami Vivekananda