Why do people put each other down?
people have a bad habit of hurting other people and making fun of others. That is out of pride and vanity. They want to make themselves important by putting others down and commenting on other's looks. A person who makes such negative comments is
himself very weak and insecure, therefore he tries to create self-confidence
by hurting others, which is wrong. You
can never create confidence by hurting others or putting others down. God is in everyone.
Most people in this worlds are superficial and jealous of each other. They may pretend to like you but inside they
are really jealous of you. They do not
like to see other people ahead of them. They are rajsik. Sometimes people speak very nicely to someone in their
presence, but as soon as that person leaves the room they start criticizing
their clothes, behavior, and appearance.
Only saints see
the good aspects of others all the time and treat them justly. Try to avoid bad company. If you want to take advantage of people at
parties and social gathering, the price
you have to pay is this criticism. It is
a useless way of spending time in the name of social gathering. Social activities are necessary, but they can
be utilized positively. Very few people
really do this. People go to the temple
to listen to lectures, but they spend most of the time watching what other people
are wearing and who is there. All of
this is foolishness and meaningless. People do this because they are ignorant. They spend too much time in competition with each other.
Do not worry too much about comparing yourself to others but stay
concerned with yourself.
Last Updated ( Thursday, 30 August 2007 )