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by Swami Yatiswarananda
There is a well-known saying in
Sanskrit:
"It is far better to roam in the forest with the hill
tribes than to live with the fools even in heaven."
If we cannot get the
company of people who are good, pure, deeply spiritual and wise, during
the period of our sadhana, we need not seek fools, i.e. worldly-minded
people, and be in their company. Their impure immoral vibrations
affect us in our present state, though we may not know it and think
nothing has happened.
When some young disciples of Sri Ramakrishna
complained to Swami Vivekananda at the Baranagore Math that they had
not yet succeeded in realizing God so they had better go back to their
families and live like householders, Swamiji replied:
"If I cannot
find Rama, should I go to Syama (i.e. a woman) for that reason? If I
cannot realize God, does not mean that I should go back to the world? No, Never!"
This is the attitude everyone has to maintain. But
ordinarily, people want somebody's company even if it is bad. They do
not want to be alone. That is the whole trouble.
One sure sign of
spiritual progress is that the devotee wants to hear and speak only of
the Divine, and of spiritual matters. If we find that a devotee is
fond of worldly company and worldly talk, there is something wrong with
his devotion, and his sincerity is questionable. An external thing can
attract me only when there is an inner consent or hankering for it in
me. Birds of the same feather flock together because they have the
same temperament. Those who are truly spiritual cannot relish the talk
and company of worldly-minded people. Worldly-minded people are unwise
though they may be very clever and intellectually developed; and the
spiritual aspirant should see that he does not pass his time in the
company of such fools. This is very very essential. I know why I am
telling this to some of you again and again.
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